People can often be speechless when someone they care about experiences hardship or loss. If you've ever found yourself in this position and didn't know what to say, you can express your feelings by sharing quotes that reflect your feelings. After all, if you get hooked, chances are the same thing will happen to the person you hope will comfort you.
Here are some sayings and passages that reflect the complex emotions associated with some of life's most difficult experiences.
A cancer diagnosis or relapse can be a life-changing event that people can't talk about yet. The quotes listed were chosen to instill strength and points of view in them, as well as to make a loved one understand that they are not alone.
"Cancer is a word, not a sentence." – John Diamond
"While no one can go back and start over, everyone can start from now and make a new ending." – Karl Bard
'The most beautiful people we have known are those who have known defeat, have known suffering, have known struggle, have known loss and have found their way from the depths. These people have an appreciation, sensitivity, and understanding of life that fills them with compassion, tenderness, and deep love. There are no beautiful people. "- Elizabeth Kubler-Ross
'Look to this day, because that's life. Yesterday is already a dream and tomorrow is just a vision. But today, when they live well, each yesterday becomes a dream of happiness and each morning a vision of hope. "- Sanskrit proverb
'Sometimes there will be no song in your heart. Sing anyway. "- Emory Austin
"I keep dreaming of the future, of the future of a long and healthy life, not in the shadow of cancer, but in the light." – Patrick Swayze
Loss of a friend
The loss of a loved one can lead you to have a hard time finding words to express how you are feeling. While pain isn't always eloquent, some people find peace in dating that reflects the strength and endurance of friendship.
"It takes a minute to find a special person, an hour to appreciate him and a day to love him, but it takes a lifetime to forget him." – Unknown author
When we honestly ask ourselves which person in our life means the most to us, we often find that it is these who, instead of giving advice, solutions or medicine, choose to share our pain and touch our wounds with warmth. and a soft hand. A friend who can be silent with us in a moment of despair or confusion, who can stay with us in an hour of pain and loss, who can endure ignorance, not heal, not heal, and face the reality of our helplessness with us , is a friend who cares. "… – Henri JM Nouven
'In some of the darkest moments of my life, some people who I thought were friends left me, some because they cared about me and it hurt them to see me suffer; to others, because I reminded them of their own vulnerability, which they couldn't deal with. But true friends overcame their discomfort and came to sit with me. If they had no words to make me feel better, they would sit quietly (much better than saying, "You can handle this" or "This is not so bad, others will have a worse time"), and I loved them for it. .. '- Harold Kushner
'Sweet is the memory of distant friends! Like the gentle rays of the rising sun, it falls softly but sadly on the heart. "- Washington Irving
'The bond between friends cannot be broken by accident; no amount of time or space can destroy it. Even death alone cannot separate true friends. "- Saint John Cassian
'True friendship is like good health; its value is rarely known until it is lost. "- Charles Caleb Colton
Loss of mother
Few things are stronger than the bond between a mother and her child. Those who mourn the loss of their mother can be comforted with words that express the endless and enduring nature of mother's love.
"Mom's hug lasts long after she lets go." – Unknown author
'The maternal memories closest to my heart are tender little memories that it brought back to me from my childhood days. They are not deep, but they stayed with me for the rest of my life, and when I am very old, they will still be there. "- Margaret Sanger
"Mothers hold their children's hands for a while, but their hearts are forever." – Unknown author
"A man loves his beloved most of all, his wife most of all, and his mother the longest." – Irish proverb
"A mother is not a person to lean on, but a person to lean on." – Dorothy Canfield Fisher
"The mother understands what the child is not saying." – Jewish proverb
'There is no death, daughter. People only die when we forget them. "My mother explained to me shortly before leaving me." If you remember me, I will always be with you. "- Isabelle Allende
Loss of husband
The loss of a spouse or partner directly affects your well-being and can make you feel like you are losing part of yourself. These dates can comfort (or perhaps smile) someone who recently lost their husband.
'To my dear and beloved husband:
If ever two were one, then surely we are.
If ever a man was loved by his wife than you;
If ever a wife was happy in a man,
Compare with me women if you can.
I value your love more than gold mines
Or all the riches of the East.
My love is such that rivers cannot be turned off
And you shouldn't, except as a return of love.
Your love is such that I cannot afford it.
I pray that heaven will reward you many times.
So, as long as we live in love, let's be so persistent [e]
That when we no longer live, one day we can live. "- Anne Dudley Bradstreet
"Living in the hearts we leave behind does not mean dying." – Thomas Campbell
'I can't say and I won't say
That he is dead. Is far.
With a happy smile and a wave of your hand
He wandered to an unknown country
And it left us dreaming of the beautiful
It must be there.
And you – oh you, who most longs for
For the old step and the joyful return,
Think of him as dear
In love with There, as in love with Here.
Think of it as the same. I'm talking,
He's not dead, he's just gone. "- James Whitcomb Riley
'My husband wanted to be cremated. I told him I would scatter his ashes on Neumann Marcus so I could visit him every day. "- Joan Rivers
'The way he treated me and how I treated him, how we took care of each other and our family while he lived. This is much more important than the idea that I will see him one day. "- Ann Druyan
Loss of wife
Everyone feels different after death, but the fear of being alone is a common feeling after the death of a wife. Knowing that others have felt your pain, along with some inspiring words about how they lived, can be a bit reassuring.
"A happy marriage is a long conversation that always seems too short." – André Maurois
'Oh my love, my wife!
Death sucking the honey from your breath
I have not yet had power over your beauty. "- William Shakespeare
"Heaven will not be paradise for me if I don't find my wife there." – Andrew Jackson
' One meat. Or, if you like, a boat. Starboard engine missing. I, the left engine, must somehow navigate to the port. Rather, until the end of the journey. – KS Luis
The amount owed by two married people is incalculable. It is an endless debt that can only be paid for eternity. "- Johann Wolfgang von Goethe
Loss of a child
How can you even begin to describe sad feelings when a child dies? The pain is enough to leave you speechless. In such moments, reflecting on the kind words of others can help some move forward when the world seems to have stopped.
'I love you every day. And now I will miss you every day. "- Mitch Albom
"We can never really get over a loss, but we can move forward and develop." – Elizabeth Berrien
'May your children be like flowers taken from God. If the flowers die or dry out, thank God for your loan for the summer. "- Samuel Rutherford
"Children reinvent their world for you." – Susan Sarandon
Think of your child not as dead, but as alive; not like a flower that has dried up, but like a flower that has been transplanted and touched by the divine hand, it blooms with brighter colors and shades sweeter than earthly ones. "- Richard Hooker
'There is holiness in tears. This is not a sign of weakness, but of strength. They speak more eloquently than ten thousand languages. They are messengers of irresistible pain, deep regret, and unspeakable love. "- Washington Irving
'It is the ability to feel overwhelming pain, pain and despair, which also allows me to embrace love, joy and beauty with all my heart. I have to drop everything. "- Anna White
'Sadness is like the ocean; comes in tidal waves. Sometimes the water is calm and sometimes it is irresistible. All we can do is learn to swim. "
– Vicki Harrison
'Death leaves a heartache that no one can heal. Love leaves a memory that no one can steal. " – Author unknown
Loss of a baby
Losing a child, regardless of age, can be heartbreaking and heartbreaking. While there are no words that can truly heal a grieving parent, pondering these quotes can help you comfort them.
"Sometimes the smallest things take up more space in your heart." – AA Milne
'Hear my steps in your heart.
I did not leave, I only walk inside you ”. – Nicholas Evans
'Gone but not forgotten,
even though we are apart
your spirit lives in me
always in my heart.' – Unknown author
'An angel in the Book of Life recorded the birth of my son.
And, closing the book, he whispered: “ Too beautiful for the earth. '' The author is unknown .
'How silently you tiptoed into our world, almost silently, you stayed just a moment. But what a mark your steps have left on our hearts. "- Dorothy Ferguson
"There is no foot so small that it does not leave a mark in this world." – Unknown author
Loss of pregnancy
Since most miscarriages occur in the first trimester, often before the parents announce their pregnancy, grieving the loss of a pregnancy can be a lonely experience. Share and reflect on the words of others who have experienced similar moments of pain and anguish. it can be a great comfort to parents.
"The best and most beautiful in the world cannot be seen or touched, but can be felt with the heart." – Helen Keller
"Wonderful memories of a child we love and will never forget." – Unknown author
"You cannot prevent sad birds from flying overhead, but you can prevent them from nesting in your hair." – Eva Ibbotson
'Babies lost in the womb were never touched by fear. They were never cold, never hungry, never alone, and most importantly, they always knew love. "- Zoe Clarke-Coates
"I hugged you every second of your life." – Stephanie Paige Cole
Loss of a soldier
Whether you are a seasoned veteran or an active young participant, it is never easy to lose someone who has given so much to their country and community. The following quotes can be used to honor the service and sacrifice of a fallen soldier.
'It is foolish and wrong to mourn the lost. Rather, we should thank God that those people lived. "- George S. Patton
Soldier, rest! your war is over
A dream that you know will not be broken;
Dream no more of fighting fields
Dangerous days, waking nights. "- Sir Walter Scott
“ They fell, but on his glorious grave
The banner of the fact is floating for the reason of his death. – Francis Marion Crawford
"While neither the sculpted marble should remain in their memory, nor the engraved stone attests to their deeds, their memory will nonetheless be as long-lived as the land they worshiped." – Daniel Webster
"A hero is one who gave his life to something greater than himself." – Joseph Campbell
"Without the valiant efforts of all Soldiers, Sailors, Airmen, Marines and their families, this nation, along with our allies around the world, could not have stood so bravely, shine so brightly, and live so freely. ". – Lane Allen Evans
"A true soldier fights not because he hates what is in front of him, but because he loves what is behind him." – GK Chesterton
Loss of grandparents
Even when grandparents are expected to die, it can still be difficult for grandchildren to get over it. These quotes can resonate with those who reflect on the lives of their grandparents while mourning their passing.
'No one can do for young children what grandparents do. Grandmothers and grandfathers, so to speak, sprinkle the lives of young children with stardust. – Alex Haley
"Some of the best teachers in the world are grandparents." – Charles W. Shedd
"When grandparents walk in the door, discipline flies out the window." – Ogden Nash
"You have to grow yourself, no matter how tall your grandfather is." – Irish proverb
"Grandma is a bit of a mother, a bit of a teacher and a bit of a best friend." – Unknown author
'We should all have a person who knows how to bless us despite the evidence. That person for me was my grandmother. " – Phyllis Theroux
"Because [grandparents] are generally free to love, guide, and befriend young people without taking daily responsibility for them, they can often overcome past pride and fear of failure and bridge the generation gap." – Jimmy Carter
'I loved his home. Everything smelled old, worn, but safe; the aroma of food is saturated with furniture. " – Susan Strasberg
'The relationship between grandmother and grandchildren is simple. Grandmothers don't like criticism and they don't like love. " – Unknown author
"My grandmother once said that pain is the price you pay for love." – Prince William
Loss of brother
Losing a sibling can have a direct impact on your mental health. During grief , reading other people's thoughts of brotherhood can be a comforting reminder of how strong that relationship can be.
"When the brothers agree, no strength can be stronger than their life together." – Antisthenes
"Brothers and sisters are as close as hands and feet." – Vietnamese proverb
"A friend is a brother who was once a hindrance." – Unknown author
'I, I have no sisters or brothers, with a certain innocent envy I look at those of whom it can be said that they were born of friends ”. – James Boswell
'To the outside world, we are all getting old. But not to brothers and sisters. We know each other as always. We know the hearts of others. We share private family jokes. We remember family struggles and secrets, family sorrows and joys. We live outside of time. "- Clara Luz Zúñiga Ortega
'We are not only our brother's keeper; In innumerable numbers, large and small, we are the creator of our brother. "- Bonaro Overstreet
"He is my favorite friend and my worst rival, my confidante and my traitor, my tutor and my addict, and the most terrible of all, my equal." – Gregg Left
'Not only did my brother disappear, but part of me went with him. Since then, the stories about us could only be told from one point of view. Memories can be told, but not shared .''– John Corey Whalley
Loss of sister
The bond with a brother or sister is often innate, tough, and unbreakable, making the loss of a sister that much more heartbreaking for those who experience it. Meditating on the words of others who have had such a strong bond can also bring some comfort to those mourning their sister.
"The sisters are different flowers from the same garden." – Unknown author
"Our roots say that we are sisters, our heart says that we are friends." – Unknown author
"Having a loving relationship with your sister isn't just about having a boyfriend or being confident … it's about having a soulmate for life." – Victoria Secunda
'Sister is a gift to the heart,
Friend of the spirit
A golden thread for the meaning of life. "- Isadora James
"Sister can be seen as someone we are, and to a large extent we are not, a special kind of doppelganger." – Toni Morrison
' She is your mirror, shining in response to you with a world of possibilities. She is your witness who sees you at your worst and best and loves you anyway. She is your accomplice in crime, your midnight companion, the one who knows when you smile even in the dark. She is his teacher, his lawyer, his personal press agent, and even his psychiatrist. Sometimes you want to be an only child for her. "- Barbara Alpert
"A sister is a small part of childhood that cannot be lost." – Marion S. Garretti
'If you have a sister and she dies, will you stop saying you have one? Or are you always a sister, even when the other half of the equation is gone? – Jody Picoult