Why You Should Tell Your Partner If You Have HSV-1

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Dating when you have cold sores can be embarrassing. But embarrassment shouldn't stop you from telling your sexual partner if you feel like you are getting closer or someone is hiding behind your lip.

Even if you are recovering, cold sores are highly contagious and you cannot just pass the infection on to your partner. This can increase the risk of contracting a sexually transmitted disease (STD).

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Facts about herpes

Herpes is usually caused by herpes simplex virus 1 (HSV-1), a cousin of HSV-2, which is primarily associated with genital herpes . Approximately 67% of the world's population under the age of 50 is infected with HSV-1 .

According to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC), herpes affects approximately three out of every 1,000 people each year. Of these, 33% will experience subsequent seizures caused by stress, fever, and other causes .

Herpes usually presents as a watery blister on the lip or mouth, or as multiple blisters that merge into one. They can be painful and can take up to 14 days before active healing begins. Herpes is usually spread through direct, non-sexual contact.

Why is telling your partner so important?

Herpes viruses are extremely contagious. And it's not just the risk of spreading herpes that you should be concerned about. If you have an HSV-1 infection, you can infect your partner with genital herpes through oral sex.

This is because HSV-1 can be transmitted from the mouth to the genitals just as easily as HSV-2 can be transmitted from the genitals to the mouth. All that is needed is skin-to-skin contact .

An open wound increases the risk of contracting sexually transmitted diseases since the virus or bacteria enter the body directly. In the case of HIV, infection can facilitate infection by providing the virus with immune cells, which it preferentially attacks and infects.

To that end, it's equally important to talk about your two sexual stories, not just herpes. Oddly enough, it lets you both know if it's time to get tested for STDs with your healthcare provider or your local health center .

How to tell your partner

It can be difficult to talk about these topics before having sex. However, you are much more likely to build strong relationships based on the truth. People are willing to take risks for love. Also, they are less likely to blame their partner for giving them herpes if they were in a relationship with their eyes open. Here is an example script that might help:

You : "I really like you, but before I continue, I wanted to tell you that I could have herpes."

Partner: "So?"

You : 'Well, because they are contagious and caused by the herpes virus. I think it's important that the person I want to date knows I have herpes before I kiss or sleep with him. "

Partner: "Is herpes herpes?"

You : "Yes."

Partner: 'I had no idea. My ex had herpes often. What does this mean to me?

You : 'Well, the herpes virus can be spread through kissing and oral sex. I always do safe oral sex, but even that is not perfect. "

Partner: 'We have never used condoms for oral sex. Does this mean I have herpes?

You : 'Not necessarily. The virus is not spread every time you have sex. But maybe it will be easier for you to pass the exam and find out everything. "

Partner: "Is there a herpes test?"

You : 'Yes. This is a blood test. It can tell you if you've ever been infected, even if you don't have symptoms. What do you think about it?'

From now on, allow your partner to make their own decision without stress or duress. There should be no immediate answer. The only thing you can control is your sexual decisions, including how you protect yourself.

If you get infected during oral sex

If you contracted genital herpes during oral sex, it is a good idea to talk to your partner about what happened. Consider teaching them instead of blaming your partner.

It is unlikely that they deliberately tried to give you an STD. Unfortunately, many people with herpes are unaware of the risk of transmitting herpes during oral sex. Fortunately, this risk can be significantly reduced through the use of appropriate barriers or suppressive therapy .

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